Grammar Dammit!

For those of you who I have never texted or spoken to, I hold grammar at a high priority. I usually can keep calm about "u" instead of "you" and "r" instead of "are" and if I'm desperate enough for conversation I'll put up with the forms of where, there, and your. My largest pet peeve about writing is when people don't even try to use the correct verb. Such as "and there isn't any relatable subjects" this is a quote from my ex. He was saying how I have bad conversation skills because I didn't want to speak about dry subjects. In my mind grammar and spelling are important in a conversation. Relatable is not a word. Relative is the correct word. And verb forms are very important to me, it drives me insane when someone says isn't when the correct verb form is aren't. I apologize for sounding a bit pretentious. I'm just obsessed with correct grammar. My mom told me she never baby talked me and I always spoke with excellent grammar. I guess you can root my obsession with correct grammar to my toddler days.
I feel like I've probably bored anyone who could possibly be reading this far, I apologize for my awful ranting.